Its better to practise a little than talk alot



Talk less and do more

 Actions almost always speak louder than words in most instances of life; this is true for your personal life amongst friends and family, your work life and career with colleges, subordinates and superiors and even in your religious/spiritual life. 

I have found that more actions and less words/speaking in any of the above mentioned aspects of one’s life leads to greater understanding – understanding of the topic or subject at hand and most importantly a deeper understanding of one’s self. A certain maturity comes with being able to hold your tongue and practise patients when you are being hurt or over ridden by a comment or conversation, always seeming to be the underdog and giving others the benefit of the doubt or the conversation – but I say if you argue with a fool you will end up looking like a fool.

Trust is a very rare but utterly precious quality and once its broken we all know it takes forever to rebuild, if you are lucky enough to be able to rebuild it. I have found that the action of speaking less and doing more instils trust in those around you be it your mom, dad, husband, boss or your friend and if you say you are going to do something then do it!
There are so many sayings to the effect of silence is maturity, don’t fight fire with fire and be the better person and walk away – while these may leave you feeling like a bit of a loser you will be the ultimate winner.
Personal insecurities often are the root cause of overcompensating with fancy words and retaliated arguments, look inside yourself and work on your issues and shot comings and learn about yourself so that you become happier, more at ease and brighter with yourself and your world.